LOVE

It's not for the weak.

It's not for the unforgiving.

It's only for those who wish to keep loving and keep forgiving even when their companion doesn't appear to be interested in the best you're offering.  It's for those who want to participate in the cycle of unconditional love even if they have cease for season.  It's for those who understand that they too will show themselves unworthy by their actions at one time or another and yet, they still want to be loved.  Love is reciprocally unconditional and only the strong survive.

The strong take risks on those who are worth it regardless of the risks they took on those who were a liability instead of an asset and that includes the old creature of the one they're with right now.


Boundaries are necessary but not always easy to explain and yet, explanations aren't always necessary.

Give everyone their proper place in order to make room for WHO'S really important in your life and WHAT'S important to your life. A little thing such as a boundary puts everything in perspective.

So this year be determined, to let the phone ring more often, let them figure a few things out on their own, teach them to draw their own water rather them giving them YOUR glass full. 
Doing so will leave you thirsty and the grass on your side of the fence dry.

Let's water your grass together for free! 
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If you are any of the following:
1. Always has the answer for everyone else.
2. The one people call FIRST.
3. Always sacrifices everything to give everything yet has nothing.
4. Feel unappreciated
5. Feel taken advantage of
6. Feel guilty whenever you do something for yourself.
7. Feels like nobody puts in effort to get you what you deserve.

THEN THIS IS FOR YOU!

There's a reason why they treat you that way and you need a change FAST! If not, you'll be living your life for everyone else for the rest of your life. 
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It's a #love-ly day for a #tbt

Women aren't hard to figure out.
Plainly speaking, we just want it all because we understand that it's not just possible, but rather it's inevitable and both of us are worth it!

What most men won't accept is the challenge to live up to the faith and hope that their woman has in them to become greater, be better, have more, and give more ALL WITH YOU!

We can't stand to settle for mediocrity when all we see is greatness inside of the shell that you REFUSE to come out of! 
We always respond to the future while "holding down" the present. That means that we can go through the "rocky" times until everything comes up "diamond". BUT it's your job to maintain AND apprehend! That means that you have to have a "mine" for US to search through! Once you have it, hold onto it, then multiply!

You are MORE than cape-able! 😉

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It's a #love-lay day for a #tbt
A good man isn't hard to find.
They're usually right there in of your face but what some us women refuse to accept is the fact that underneath the dirt is where we'll find our buried treasure.

The thing is, you want to dig deep bc you believe that he's a good man whether he's with you or not. You want to make sure that outside of his relation to you as a companion, he is valuable and worthy of being seen as just a man. In turn, the benefit of thinking this way is that you'll be the first one to see AND partake in what you've found.... and the man you'll find, NO OTHER WOMAN HAS HAD!

Maybe he will dream bigger when he's sure that you see him being more important than the dream you're pushing him to.

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I ask him how he likes my nails, whether he wants to see me go curly or straight, and even what color he likes to see me in because I not only want to be the one he loves but I NEED to be the one he likes!

And no, giving him the choice doesn't take away from me being my own woman because being the woman he loves and likes leads to greater purpose that benefits US. 

A woman knows: 
what to give, what to keep, when to be vulnerable, when to be vocal, and how to be an active participant in building up together.
I give him (only 1 God-sent "him") the option to choose because I want to keep his interest specifically by letting him know I'm open to and responsive of what he thinks, how he feels, and what he wants through what I do and how I get it done.

I turn him on to turn him out.
I ride so that he doesn't have to die.
I get down so he can get up.
I go low so he can stay high off my sweet potato pie.

I raise the temperature in the atmosphere so that he reaches his full potential.

And why do I do this?
I let him in so that he can release a deposit that fills me up with the very things I need but can never produce nor attain without him.

It's about completion.

Open wide Love! Now stay that way. 
.... And if you didn't get that then get this:
Turn down your roar and purr for Daddy! 
Especially since he's not smitten by the "kittens"!

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Before you take him/her back, take a look around to see if they've done what you were asking them to do, when you two were together, in their time apart from you.  

If they made changes while apart (got a job, stopped hanging out all night every night, finally told their child's parent about you, etc) then you have found a person who values your presence in their life so much that they will change.  Just keep in mind that you don't want to have to keep breaking up in order to see a change.  If that becomes the case then they value your convenience and take second chances as an opportunity to play on your emotions for their own selfish motives.  

If no changes have been made on their own, then you're simply going back to the same ole' thang..... Leave them right where they are!

People who love you and really want you will make whatever necessary changes within themselves to be with you.  
Why?  
Well it's not because you can make a person change but you can sure become a catalyst!  
When you're with the right person, THEY WILL ALLOW you to bring out the best in them (one way or the other) and in turn, YOU ALLOW THEM to bring out the best in you too.  

P.S.- Don't think that you can provoke them to keep making changes while you stay on the same level!  
If so, then you'll certainly have your turn to be the one on pause until you #makethatchange.

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Take a listen to see if you find yourself in any or all of these descriptions and if you do, follow the steps in the video. This video includes the following:

1st Indicator - Avoidance

2nd Indicator - Intentional Sabotage

3rd Indicator- Fear

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