Well, I'm finally here! I've accepted the fact that I'm just too lengthy to continue disrespecting Instagram and Facebook with each post being longer than I desired due to all I have to say. From the previous sentence alone, you should be able to depict that I have much to say. Still, I don't intend to use my blog as a soapbox (at least not now anyway) and I only waited so long because of the time and dedication it takes to run a blog. I didn't have the time nor the patience I needed...better yet, let's be truthful, I didn't want to make the time for a blog because it was one more thing on my list of things to do. I figured I'd talk to you in different ways and I can still give you what you need. As we both grow, I find that you and I need more space for this kind of relationship and I'd hate for us to miss all we could have. Overall, the main reason I decided to blog is so that you and I have a space where I can give the better and best parts of me in return for the best and better parts of you.
So, what should you expect? I'm glad you asked!
I am a Jersey girl and no, I don't say "joy-see"; I say Jersey just like everyone else in the world. What I do love though, which is apparently very Jerseyan to the rest of the world, is big statement hair, pizza, the uniform of sweaters with boots and a leather jacket during the cold season, shortened words like “gonna” in place of going, laughing loudly, and gold! You can expect to see all kinds of changes in my hair to reflect what I’m experiencing, you can also expect to see gonna and wanna, and yes, you can expect to see hints of gold everywhere.
I also love all kinds of music and you will always see hints of that love strewn throughout what I do. And what do I do? Society would classify me as a lifecoach, speaker, and author but when you roll that up into one, I’m a destiny catalyst, heartitude adjuster, and I start fires everywhere I go (not literally…although I do love Drew Barrymore and the entire concept behind the movie Firestarter). My goal is to use my natural resources to burn away the lies that say you can’t, you won’t, and you will never so that you live in purpose, on purpose. You won’t see much talk about the latest cars, latest tech releases, nor politics. If that’s what you’re looking for on a consistent basis, I won’t be able to help you. What I will adjust is your mindset and heartitude behind unconditional love for yourself, how to navigate through self-dsicovery, how to allow the real you to live every single day, and how to balance all the roles you play without the guilt. Each goal is based on the fact that it’s not about what happened to you that’s keeping you from a great life experience but it’s what you haven’t done despite the things that came to tell you you aren’t capable of living instead of just existing. There’s nothing worse than being dead and alive at the same time as in a dead man/woman walking because they won’t trade the familiarity, comfort, and convenience for the unknown in order to have a beautiful life they were born to live. Pair my experience with what it takes to go back to love, life, and the beginning each time hate, death, and distraction shows up, with my results and I’m left with no choice but to share with everyone who wants to.
I’m also a married mom, a daughter, a big sister, an aunt, a big cousin, the oldest grand, a friend, a confidant, and an enterprise but before I’m any of the above, I am more spirit than I will ever be human which means I’m free to see the answer to my dilemma and bring it into existence for my resolve and for yours.
What you won’t see on this blog are lies, profanity, nor anything I haven’t personally lived through.
The only thing I ask of you is to apply what you read and hear then share the results with me!
P.S.-No spellcheck tonight ;)